Tuesday, June 16, 2009

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Saturday, June 13, 2009

ARE YOU TAKING LOVE FOR CONTROL?

Are you loving the people in your life or are you controlling the people in your life?

There is a difference. Control is born from fear, not love. When raising children we need to provide guidance, boundaries and safety for them to flourish. We as adults have the same needs. When we love and care for someone we concern ourselves with their well being also. Many of us try to achieve perfection in every aspect of our lives. This applies particularly to relationships. When we fail, we do not question our perfectionism we simply try to control even more. Perfectionism is nothing but a lack of trust, and lack of trust originates in fear. With raising children that fear is our concern they will not turn out to be the type of person that we want them to be. Often it comes from the worry that people will judge us not to be a good parent. Therefore, we put more time and effort into being the perfect parent. As adults, we transfer our need to be perfect on to our adult roles. We work hard to be the perfect employee, the perfect partner, and the list goes on.

It is hard enough controlling ourselves without the added burden of controlling others. I will let you in on a little secret, being the Policeman of the Universe is exhausting! Don't get me wrong, it is possible to have everything you want in your life. You simply do not get there by being controlling. Trying to control your life is like trying to control the weather. Look at the level of concern there has been on the lack of rain lately. The focus on lack caused worry not rain. The rain came when it was ready. Surrendering to that, trusting in that takes the pressure off.

Acceptance of life and acceptance of your circumstances releases the pressure. Trying to control everyone in an attempt to control every outcome does not lead to happiness. It stifles your creativity, and dims your light. If loved ones feel unsafe expressing their true selves, they will only do what everybody else wants. You will not get to see their magnificence just a projection of who they think you want them to be. Is that what you want? This may lead to a 'happy' home but it comes at a very high price as they lose themselves in the process. This is how 'people pleasers' are created. Many perfectionists are people pleasers themselves and feel burdened by having to be and do so much for others.

You can choose to let go of the attachment to the outcome. You can let your light shine and experience the freedom that comes with that. You can listen to your inner wisdom that tells you that no amount of worrying will have any bearing on the result. You can choose love not fear. You can choose a life free from anxiety and tension.

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Wednesday, June 10, 2009

SKILL TO HAVE IN PICKUP

Out of all the questions I'm emailed, there is one that continues to surface... "What is the most important skill to develop in pickup?" I believe the very nature of this question is problematic. It suggests that there is a quick fix to our dating problems and that's simply not the case. If there is one thing I've discovered in my trainings, it is this: Powerful pickup techniques can certainly help a client, but not NEARLY as much as identifying and eliminating previously existing bad habits.


Most of the time the client is not aware of these habits, and it requires some real work on my part just to convince them that they exist in the first place. This is also what I believe is wrong with most of the pickup training out there...It teaches a methodology or system without taking into account the individual hangups that the client most certainly has. The unique training I've developed with Dr. Robert Epstein (one of the most respected psychologists in the world) not only presents a comprehensive pickup system to master, but the exercises are individually tailored to each client. Now before I get too sale-sy, you should know that I'm actually making a point here:

The most important pickup skill you can develop is to become more aware of your own bad habits...and come up with effective solutions to help get rid of them. In other words, you can master every damn pickup technique that you want... but if every time you open you mouth, flecks of saliva spray her in the face... you're pretty much fucked no matter what. Now, of course there are many other skills that one could argue are 'the most important.' For example, we are very big on relaxation here... Giving every client an arsenal of invisible ways to minimize stress in tough situations is essential.

But there is one other skill that I feel deserves mention...In fact, this is the skill that in my not-so-humble opinion separates the men from the boys in the dating game: The ability to cope with resistance. Lets face it, most of us have had an easy lay at one point or another. Hopefully you know what I'm talking about...It was just ON...You liked her, she liked you, you were horny, so was she... Escalation to sex was as smooth as butter. This kind of lay doesn't impress me at all. Not that I turn it down when it happens, of course;) What impresses me is how a client performs in the face of real resistance. In other words, she is blocking your attempts to push the relationship forward. Oftentimes this resistance is a result of a mistake you might have made.


And we all make mistakes, so get used to it. The best seductions I've ever done were always the ones where I made a critical error...and was able to recover. So the next time you screw up on an approach or a date, remember that it is actually an incredible opportunity to see if you can bounce back...

MAKE YOUR WOMAN HAPPY!!!!!!!!

Do you know how to make a woman happy? These are some relationship tips for men.
First of all, be yourself! Some men feel that they aren't good enough to attract a beautiful, vivacious woman, so they put on a display. Actually, a confident man is a very sexy creature. Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the best looking women. This is basically because women tend to be more attracted to confidence then mere physical appearance.

Think about doing some of the little things well, such as offering to take her car in for servicing, or buying her a bag of her favorite jellybeans on occasion. Often men get hung-up on making huge demonstrations of their affection, when it's very often the little gestures over time, that win her heart.

Going right along with this is this next piece of advice - never take her for granted! Express your appreciation and let her know she's valued. Don't look at other women when you are with her. In her mind she may be thinking that you are comparing her with them. Women tend to look for a lifetime partner and monogamy, this is their natural design. Show her respect and stop ogling when you are together.

Express your sense of humor and make her laugh. While men often list sexual attractiveness as their number #1 priority, women on the other hand tend to list a good sense of humor as their top priority. Keep her laughing and smiling if you want a relationship that lasts.

Next is to develop common interests. It's great if you already share a hobby or interest, or if that's what brought you together, but your next step is to develop an interest in one of her long standing passions. This could mean developing an interest in horses, or dog agility training. So be it, this will demonstrate to her that you are truly one in a million.

Once you develop the relationship and get the girl, it may seem like you can let things slide, like grooming for instance. Wrong - most women appreciate a well groomed man! This means shaving, even on weekends, wearing some decent and somewhat fashionable clothing. Don't get lazy or sloppy just because you landed a great girl, otherwise you can just as easily lose her.

It will be important to her, to be able to integrate you into her circle of friends and family. She must see where you fit in, even after the initial weeks of passion have gone by. Make an effort to get along with her friends and try to create a good impression with her parents. Women often rely on their social network to validate their relationship choices - it's important to put forth a real effort here.

Always be considerate of her feelings. Women tend to be moody, often as a result of hormonal changes. If you can be sensitive to her moods you'll stay on her good side. A final bit of relationship advice, is to be open to trying new things. In the beginning, everything is new and exciting, from the way you kiss to the dates you go out on. But after a time, things can get a little routine and stale - you can fall into a rut. Now is the time to shake things up and try something fresh and new. A little excitement can keep your relationship healthy and enjoyable.

SEVEN TIPS ON HOW TO ASK SOMEONE OUT

Do you know how to ask someone out. Bou may be the shy type. But you dont have to worry. your solution is here. Try these out.

1. Introduce yourself to that person you've been admiring from afar.

2. Get the person's telephone number, or tell a common friend you would like the number.

3.Call. Choose a time that is not intrusive. Call when you are comfortable doing so, regardless of what your friends might say about the right time to call.

4. Reintroduce yourself once you're on the phone by saying something like, "Hey, it's Shirley. We met at the drag strip."

5. Using as little pretense as possible (ideally none), ask the person if he or she would like to get together for a cup of coffee or do something similarly casual. If you are politely refused, take the hint and get off the phone.

6. Meet casually for a brief time - half an hour or so. If that goes well, suggest a more formal date, such as lunch.

7. Go on the more formal date

HOW TO PRESENT A FLOWER GIFT

Many folks dont have an idea of how to package or present a flower gift. the following tips will help you in going about it.

1. Consider a plant or bouquet for a new home, a get-well present, to convey congratulations, wish a happy birthday, or say "thank you" or "I love you."

2. Think creatively. Send a bouquet or flowering plant or make a terrarium, planting basket, or herb basket.

3. Send fresh flowers the morning of an anticipated dinner party so the host can display them at the party.

4. Remember to enclose a written note.